I am an experienced couple therapist and work as a senior clinician at Tavistock Relationships where I trained.
I was a practising divorce lawyer for 5 years but decided that I wanted to work more with the dynamics of relationships than the practical outcomes of their breakdown.
I still work in the field of divorce and separation consulting to individuals and couples who are divorcing at Family Law in Partnership.
The way I work with couples is to create and hold a time and space to reflect on and think about the dynamics they are struggling with or stuck in.
By working with a therapist a couple can start to get a bird’s eye view on their relationship and this can give them more capacity to see where they’re getting it wrong with each other and start to make changes.
Often just the reality of making a regular time to think about the issues between them starts to help.
